More than a Highland fling: making wedding rings on a romantic Scottish holiday (2024)

Blanketed by snow, the forest is almost silent, with only the muffled crunch of boots, my frosty exhale and the occasional creak of laden branches. Low sunlight dazzles, glinting off curls of silver birch bark and branches festooned with lichen like forgotten tinsel. Ahead of us on the trail there are footprints of roe deer and red squirrel. This is Abernethy Forest, at 4,000 hectares the largest remaining section of the great Caledonian Forest that once covered much of Scotland. It’s worlds away from the monoculture of sitka spruce plantations and a balm to this urban dweller’s soul.

Map showing Nethy Bridge and Aviemore in the Cairngorns

My partner, Euan, and I are staying on the edge of the woods in Arbor Bothy, a cabin for two in the village of Nethy Bridge. We’ve come to escape the city for a few nights, but our trip is more than a simple weekend away. The owners of the bothy, Amy and Graham Niven, a goldsmith and a photographer, offer creative workshops, and we’re here to make our wedding rings (and not from a twist of silver birch).

Amy and Graham loved holidaying in Nethy Bridge as children, and became year-round residents in 2019 shortly after starting a family. The property they found allowed them to have their own studio and had a bothy, a small dwelling for visitors, in the garden.

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Nethy Bridge has a long history of garden bothies: traditionally villagers rented out their homes and stayed in bothies during the light summer nights. Amy and Graham’s dilapidated old bothy wasn’t salvageable for a modern conversion but had a history worth celebrating. Newspapers stuffed in the walls told stories of the building, from its construction in 1880 to its time as the village cinema in the mid-1900s.

Graham’s new self-build design kept the aesthetics of the original bothy. The exterior is clad in local larch that, as it ages, will fade to a silvery grey like its predecessor. Inside, thoughtful decor includes ceramics by Glasgow-based Kim Plimley and Graham’s striking photographs of local landscapes. An Ordnance Survey map of the Cairngorms stretches over an entire wall to the vaulted ceiling. We’re constantly drawn to it, tracing journeys we’ve made in the past and finding places we want to explore. An air source heat pump and underfloor heating keep things warm, and a projector has been added as a nod to the village’s cinematic history, using streaming services rather than the old spools discovered here.

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Amy runs The Third Aye jewellery brand from a snug cabin beside the bothy, working on individual commissions (often designing bespoke pieces using old family jewellery), and offering small-group workshops making anything from pendants and bangles to earrings. I’d never considered making jewellery before, but with my wedding coming up, choosing a ready-made ring felt sterile and I was drawn to crafting something personal. After a bit of research, I was pleasantly surprised to find that prices were competitive. Amy’s commitment to working primarily with recycled silver and gold sealed the deal, as we are trying to keep the environmental impact of our wedding as low as we can.

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We head into the studio as the light is falling. Candles flicker and the kettle is on. We’d met Amy on a video call a few weeks earlier to discuss our rings and the materials, and she dealt skilfully with our lack of knowledge of wire shapes and metal grades. Through the whole process she is friendly and encouraging but I’m still a little nervous. At my work bench is a short length of recycled gold wire. All being well, this will become a ring that I’ll wear for the rest of my life.

We carefully measure the wire (it’s the first time I’ve calculated with pi – the ratio of a circle’s circumference to its diameter – since high school) then saw it to size, file the edges and, using pliers, shape a wonky letter D, which we solder together. While the rings are cleaned up in the “pickle pot” (a container of mild acid that removes oxidation and excess solder), Amy produces a welcome glass of prosecco with Inshriach bramble-infused liqueur, made along the road in Aviemore.

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Finally we shape our rings with a mallet (I’m getting more relaxed about bashing gold) then sand and polish them. When Amy brings out the finished products I’m suddenly a bit emotional, struck by the significance of the bands we’ve made in this special place. Both rings are, thanks to Amy’s careful tuition, flawless and a perfect fit.

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With rings made we have plenty of time to relax, and Nethy Bridge is a pretty base, surrounded by boreal forest and bisected by the rushing River Nethy. Friday is pizza night, when Andrew Matthew of Highland Slice parks his converted horsebox outside the village shop and serves wood-fired margheritas and more. Highland Slice pops up around the region, with locations and changing menu announced on social media – and there’s always a queue. I head back up the icy track with my piping hot boxes to the warm embrace of the bothy. The pizzas are delicious, topped with wild mushrooms and walnut pesto.

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Home-cooked meals can also be ordered and delivered from The Dell Grocer, an idyllic little shop nearby. In winter the grocer isn’t permanently staffed but there’s a walkie-talkie in a wooden box by the door for calling a member of staff to open up. We leave with a bottle of local cider, organic milk, and local eggs and smoked trout for breakfast.

Our last night is spent stargazing, swinging on hammock chairs by the chiminea, soaking up the silence and planning future visits. Our rings will follow us home. First Amy will send them to be hallmarked and laser etched with contours from our favourite mountain. I have a feeling that this little slice of the Cairngorms will also be wound around my finger, and my heart, for a long time to come.

Accommodation provided by Arbor Bothy. Jewellery workshops range from £95 for silver ring making, to £345 plus materials for a wedding rings workshop for two, thethirdaye.com

More than a Highland fling: making wedding rings on a romantic Scottish holiday (2024)

FAQs

What is a traditional Scottish ring? ›

Claddagh ring

Another Celtic design is the 'Claddagh' ring of two hands clasping a heart, with a crown above them. It can be worn as a friendship ring, as well as an engagement ring or wedding ring.

Do the Scottish wear wedding rings? ›

Culture and where one lives can also have an influence and determine which hand wedding rings are worn on and which hand engagement rings are worn on. Usually wedding rings are worn on the right hand. In some countries, however, they are worn on the left hand, like in France, Italy, Sweden, Scotland and Belgium.

When did wedding rings start in Scotland? ›

Since the Book of Genesis, rings have been given as pledges. A wedding tradition of the Romans was to give a betrothal ring. In the Middle Ages, the Scots began the wedding tradition of giving a silver fede ring. This ring was consigned to the kirk, or church, when arranging for their proclamation of marriage.

Are wedding rings important? ›

Wedding bands serve as a reminder of your devotion to your spouse. Since the middle ages, when the groom would give the bride and her family an expensive ring to demonstrate his dedication to the marriage and that he would never walk away from this bond, wedding rings have served as symbols of devotion.

What is the Scottish symbol for marriage? ›

The Trinity Knot is a Symbol of Eternal Love

Hand-fasting is an ancient Celtic tradition originally used to symbolize a betrothal. This literal tying of the knot would see couples bound together by a Druid priest.

What is the symbol on a Scottish Rite ring? ›

Beyond the inclusion of the double-headed eagle, there is no officially mandated design, so 32nd degree Scottish Rite rings can vary greatly in appearance. Common symbols include the number 32, triangles, the Hebrew letter yod, and the square and compasses.

What finger is the wedding finger in Scotland? ›

Traditionally, in the UK, couples wear their wedding ring on the fourth finger of their left hand. This is commonly known as your wedding ring finger.

What is the traditional Scottish wedding wish? ›

*Lang may yer lum reek: A much-loved and well-used traditional Scottish wish for good health, long life, happiness and prosperity (literally “Long may your chimney smoke”).

Can you wear a kilt at a wedding if you're not Scottish? ›

Of course you can. Kilts can be a stylish and unique choice for any wedding, regardless of the location or cultural background of the bride and groom.

What is the blood oath at a Scottish wedding? ›

Celtic Wedding Vow

Ye are Blood of my Blood, and Bone of my Bone. I give ye my Body, that we Two might be One. I give ye my Spirit, 'til our Life shall be Done.

What is a traditional Scottish wedding? ›

A designated officiant or a loved one typically performs the handfasting ritual during the wedding ceremony. The couple's hands are gently clasped, and a length of fabric or ribbon is wrapped around their hands, creating an intricate knot or pattern.

How do you wear a Scottish ring? ›

If you are single: wear the ring on your right-hand ring finger with the bottom tip of the heart facing outwards. It shows your heart is free for love. If you are engaged: wear it on your left-hand ring finger with the bottom tip of the heart facing outwards. It shows that you are committed to another person.

What does the Bible say about wedding rings? ›

In today's society, exchanging wedding rings is very popular amongst Christian weddings, weddings of a variety of different religions and indeed also non-religious services. However, did you know that there is no biblical scripture that instructs people to wear wedding rings?

What does it mean when a man doesn't wear his wedding ring? ›

Him not wearing it usually means something other than a lack of commitment. Some men have occupations and hobbies that would make the ring uncomfortable and possibly even dangerous. Add to this that most men are quite active and fear losing it.

Why do married couples stop wearing wedding rings? ›

There are reasons why spouses may choose to stop wearing wedding bands after the ceremony. The rings may no longer fit the wearer because of significant weight gain or loss or because the wearer's occupation prevents them from donning the rings daily.

What jewelry is Scotland famous for? ›

Pebble Jewellery is a style that has long been associated with Scotland. It is generally made from silver, as well as stones such as agate, marble and yellow quartz.

What finger is the ring finger in Scotland? ›

In Western cultures, couples exchange wedding rings after their vows during the ceremony. The wedding ring is traditionally worn on the left hand as this side is closest to the heart. A wedding band is usually worn on the fourth finger, commonly known as the ring finger.

What is the typical Scottish symbol? ›

The thistle, the floral emblem of Scotland, also features in Scottish & British heraldry through symbols, logos, coats of arms, and on British currency. The Honours of Scotland, the Scottish Crown Jewels, are displayed in the Crown Room of Edinburgh Castle, from where they are removed only for State Occasions.

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